Finally suceed in digging through almost 500 mails just to find which comment i accidentally deleted.. Yea the Lydia gal thingy… I cant just let go.. It really hurts to even read about her comment and impression about me. She called me snobby. Am i?? Why dont you guys tell me. Tell me honestly and seriously.. Am I? I take it whatever you had to say and i promise i wont delete it.. Here what she wrote…
A new comment on the post #154 “Mean Girls or gal to gal bitchiness? O_0???” is waiting for your approval
http://adyla.blogrox.net/2007
Author : Lydia gal (IP: 60.53.200.113 , 60.53.200.113)
E-mail : lydia_gal@yahoo.com
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Comment:
Adyla, i just read ur blog today. And i must say i found it very hard to understand most of ur sentences. the way u brag about ur academic achievements makes me sick.who do u think u are. a 16 yr old gal cannot know so many stuff.u really should brush up on ur english. or at least refer to sumone who knows english.ur only embarassing urself on the world wide web. by the way, ur also giving ur school a bad name. u give the impression of being a very snobbish gal. anyone who reads ur blog should know that half of it( or should i say almost ALL of it ) is just rubbish. I’m surprised ur still blogging. hasn’t anyone ever condemned ur english and ur attitude. by the way u should know better than to use vulgar words in ur blog. and the list of names on ur about me page just proved ur level of ethics is very low. how many boys do you know. and who is andrew? ur bf? why do you praise him so much?……….i got lots to say but i can’t waste my time. bye.
Now tell me really?? She was commenting on Mean Girls or gal to gal bitchiness? O_0??? For those who wants to know the reason why i didnt blog. This is it.. I cant figure it why.. Yeah, my english suck.. big time and im the editor for my school magazine.. I bet it was disaster..
Wow! I guess you’ve managed to get yourself a fan
Write what you want, brag as much as you want, be as snobbish as you would want to for this is your world and you have all the rights to be doing so. Cheers kiddo (I sure hope you dont mind me calling you that) 
Dear Ms. Lydia Jared,
If you go to any teenagers blogs in this whole world, you will see that most of them are using SMS languages, not proper English. Furthermore, please understand that blog is used as online diary where people to share thoughts and views, and it is owner’s choice to tell whatever he/she pleases.
In such a way, actually Adyla has give her best English as English is not her mother tongue. People supposedly to give encouragement to her to improve her English, but YOU, I repeat, YOU, not only degrading and embarrassed her in her own blog, you put a total shame on how people judge Malaysian girls are.
C’mon, that’s what humans are. Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and you expect that everybody is perfect like God. God has created humans with one’s own strength and weakness. Be thankful with your strength and use that to help others, not bashing others.
Well, your age which is 22, does proves that you’re jealous with someone’s advantage. Hell, everyone has ups and downs. Give her a break. At least, she’s trying to convey her ideas and message.
I think that’s all. Please drop your blog URL so I can evaluate on how your English is…
Cheers! =)
P/S: Adyla, tenang sudey….. Imagine that, this is what I’m answering her if I were you…
dun care the fella la. hate mails are just plain silly to begin with.
Lydia : I’m the Andrew you are talking about… I’m her blog host. I handle her blog under BlogRox.net. If a guy places your name in his blog, does it make you his gf ??? Please be mature a bit. How old are you ? Just wanted to tell you that, if you don’t understand people’s way of expressing their English…doesn’t mean that their English is bad. It might be your narrow understanding towards different types of English. Try reading blogs overseas. And why do you send such comments on her blog itself ?? What has she done ? Its her rights to do blog whatever she wants.. Its her blog…
Adyla : Just leave her… She’s just jealous… If she doesn’t like your blog, she can just ignore your blog. But in this case, its not like that. She’s jealous. So you have fun and remember, you have some one jealous towards your blog. Which makes you a good blogger !!
I’ve the same experience before.
We cant make everyone in this world to like us.
What Andrew Raj said is true, she’s jealous.
Maybe she’s lack of love or something pathetic than that…
It’s your blog, suppose to have your style. The commentor english wasn’t that good too
Don’t get too mind about the comment, mind yourself is fine. Human is a judge-mental animal, everyone has different point of view on who are you, why so mind about the “snobby”?
Fuck her also no time lar!!
haha..ignore her
adyla mui..
can just ignore her..
the rest already said what I would like to say d
The signs of someone getting popular:
1) critique or condemnation from someone who envies you alot (or hate you)
2) Supportive comments from people whom you know…
wow, this shows that you are getting more and more popular. Besides, Its your fame, your show. Perhaps she wants to leech on your fame….
Oh well…..I’d say you are doing a decent job in your blog. Keep it up!
wahh…so many thing happen ka…adyla..paiseh ler..last nite i was very busy with my project..cant talk much with you..i think u can just ignore them..and you can 100 % trust 3point8,coz he is a very good thinker now..haha..
Aiyah! Don’t care lah! This is ur site u can post what u want & use whatver language u want! Don’t worry ur pretty head over this sort of comment!
I also get this sort of comment as I am lowely educated so my post full of grammar & spelling mistake also!
Have a nice day!
I have no idea that why people really eat too full no things to do is it? Very d damn d free comment on others’ english on their own blog???
Writers have their choice to post whatever lar, wanna act what we want to act.. ! Bloggers are not your english class’ student lor..
we even hv our right to post vulgar words and puposely post wrong language usage. U care arh?? ..
if really got people so free like hell… go all the blogs and comment lar..